Many people want to attract or manifest their soulmate into their life, at most times we long for a deep desire to connect with someone on a spiritual level, such is our soulmate.  However, during your time alone, before the universe will bring this soul into your life, you should know these 5 common factors that could be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.

Relationships are like food to the soul, essential for its growth and invariably necessary for our sustenance as a person.

If the soul is happy, the individual regardless of the prevailing societal and physical setting is happy; it’s the reason why people who have found their soulmates; that final piece to the Jigsaw puzzle that is their lives radiate nothing short of a blissful aura.

For those who are yet to find this perfect complement to their lives, life can be lackluster and fleeting. If you fall into this category, here are the top five reasons as to why manifesting your soulmate has been a fruitless endeavor so far.

Love yourself first

Your soulmate is the one who loves and cherish you for the person you are, irrespective of your flaws and perfections. How then can you connect with such an individual if your real persona is constantly veiled?

Granted, life forces even the most resilient of us to create an emotional blockade in a bid to prevent the reoccurrence of previously less than pleasurable experiences.

The realisation that such a barrier effectively transforms you from a being capable of infinite love to one with a constrained view of life is critical to the furtherance of your journey towards finding a soulmate.

Your soulmate is attracted to your real persona. If you exude anything other than this in your day to day life, you are most likely to attract the wrong set of individuals; who are bound to waste your time and potentiate further emotional scarring and invariably the building of even taller blockades.

It takes work  

As much as finding a soulmate is often described with the cliché ‘they will come to you’ phrase, it is imperative to note that in most instances this is far from what is obtainable in reality. Locating your treasured missing rib takes effort, it takes commitment, and sacrifice.

The saying ‘nothing good comes easy’ comes to mind; the right soulmate, the perfect fit, do not come easy.

For sure they are not delivered on a platter of gold if anything you’ve got to fashion out the golden platter on which they’d land when they come; in other words, you’ve got to take the necessary steps to accommodate your soul mate when they do arrive. Many an instance where individuals have lost their prospective soulmates due to negligence.

Emotionally Unavailable

It takes an emotionally sound mind to locate and abhor/accommodate a soulmate. And while most singles (including you) identify themselves as emotionally matured, in the real sense they are not.

Emotional maturity is not centred on how many relationships or experiences you’ve had in the past, it is more of how capable you are at dealing with relationships and their accompanying issues.

A matured individual in this sense is one who is ready to take up responsibilities; one who is willing to forgive and also keep an open mind. This doesn’t mean you have to be perfect in all ramifications; it just means that you have to invest more time in developing yourself.

Picture yourself as your partner, and work on those qualities you require your dream soulmate to have.

Staying Isolated

Maybe due to past experiences or perhaps because of your very nature you’ve made a habit of separating yourself from everyone including those that love you.

This psyche aptly described as being a loner isolates you from experiencing the feeling of being loved; a feeling that is critical to finding a soul mate. It is when you’re loved that you can love back and it is in this atmosphere of mutual love and friendship that soulmate relationships thrive.

Holding Onto The Past 

It’s a tough and mentally demanding task to let go of the past, especially when it is filled with pleasant memories made with someone whom we once loved dearly.

Reliving those memories and wishing things returned to the way they were, clouds your sense of judgment and ultimately shuts the door of healthy relationships in your life.

If you’re going to find your soulmate, you have to let go of the past, no matter how difficult it seems realize that if that person were indeed your soulmate, he/she would still be here by your side in the present.

Talking with a online psychic can help you weed through the struggles you might be facing when it comes to love.  Our love psychics can guide you through a soulmate psychic reading, or a online tarot reading to help you find the factors that might be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.