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What To Do When Your Soulmate Isn’t Ready For You?

Posted on July 18, 2019 by Zenory

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Soulmate relationships are almost invariably complicated at best. The worst part and feeling is when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, can really sucks a big one.

And there are times in which, no matter how strong the connection we feel is, the person on the other end is just not ready. This is, for sure, an extremely frustrating situation.

Your connection is so strong and so real that you cannot fathom how the other person seems to be oblivious to it, and it gets really hard to let go of trying to control the situation.

It is never easy to go through this process, but it can help if you see it as an opportunity. One of the main lessons we get through a soulmate relationship that quite often goes ignored is that they are not meant to merely satisfy you emotionally, but to push you to grow, and growth is quite often difficult.

It is as well crucial to remember that even though you share a made-above connection, you are still individuals on your own seprerate journey, and you only have control over your own experience.

For these reasons, the best thing to do when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, is to shift the focus from trying to change their perception, to your own experience and personal development.

If your soulmate is not ready for you, there is a misalignment, but it will not resolve until you work out your own issues. Your soulmate connection cannot be severed, so you need to let go of the urge to keep the relationship going at all costs and embrace divine timing, along with touching base with your own spirit.

Soulmate journeys will always bring change, development and progress. When your soulmate isn’t ready, your best shot is to continue this journey in faith and strength, leading the way and trusting the process.

Still need some clarity around your soulmate readiness? Touch base with a soulmate psychic. A soulmate psychic reading can help you reach that elation by pointing you in the right direction. It can also be used to find clarity in your current soulmate relationship and the feelings and intention from your soulmate. Soulmate psychics can connect with the energy between you and your soulmate to identify the soul connection that the both of you share.

Through a soulmate reading you will gain the clarity and insight behind the deeper connection and gain the power to move you forward and out of the rut.

Are You Truly Ready For A Soulmate Relationship?

Posted on February 25, 2018 by Psychic Ruby

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The truth is, soulmate relationships are difficult.   So how do you know if your soulmate ready?

Soulmate relationships require work from both parties to prepare for a life long journey that the universe has planned from the spiritual realm.

What is a soulmate?  When we think or hear of the word soulmate, we think of the person we desire the most to be with in this life time and live happily ever after.

The true definition of a soulmate is someone whom we have a past life and spiritual connection with or karmic relationship.

These connections are like no other and when we reconnect in this life time, the connections are felt from a deeper level of spiritual essence.

When you meet your soulmate.  You connect instantly.  The feelings are that you have met this person before.  The likely hood for this meeting is from a past life experience.

A soulmate will show up in your life when you are truly ready from the soul level.

When the soul recognises another soulmate, they often have similarities on a spiritual level, which leads to difficult lessons that need to be shaped here in the physical realm.

Soulmates are meant to teach us a lesson, and often meant to help us grow in life.

The lessons from a soulmate can be painful, and often lead to soulmate heartbreak.

How do you know if you are truly ready for a soulmate relationship?

It can be frustrating when you see family and friends around happy in love with their soulmate  while all you find are quick sparks of love that never build to a solid relationship, let alone soulmate connections.

Hollywood movies and romance novels make it look far too easy to find your soulmate these days, which often leads to disappointment.

The first thing you need to do to bring forth your soulmate is to let go of the expectations from yourself to find “the one”.  You must release this energy and work on yourself first and foremost.

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Comparing yourself with others, also needs to go.  Comparing yourself with expectations that just don’t exist can leave you feeling worthless and make you feel hopeless.

To find love and the right type of love that is best suited for you, you must think and create good thoughts in your mind to bring this person into your life.

Most people want to be with someone who is happy, and positive – most of the time.

Not with someone who carries negative energy around and constantly bringing the relationship down.

So firstly, you should engage in becoming a positive force within yourself.

In a nutshel, the best way to bring a soulmate into your life, is by working on yourself.

There are many ways you can go about working on yourself, you can take a course on personal growth, get to know yourself and read books on how to manifest soulmates.  Learn about meditation practices.  Sign up to that yoga classes.

Take a walk in nature – anything to enhance area of self-development and personal growth, will help you draw your soulmate to you.

How Do You Know When Your Ready?

Your soul knows when the time is ready to meet your soulmate.

There are first and foremost important lessons that you need to learn before the soulmate enters your life.

You should use this opportunity to work on yourself.  When the soulmate enters your life, you are more than ready.

This will sound counter-intuitive but people spend too much time searching for love.

They hang out at bars, or search apps like tinder or jump to dating sites endlessly scrolling.

Your Soulmate will enter your life when you least expect it and are not actively looking for it.

Your willingness to better yourself will let the universes know that you are ready for your soulmate to find you.

As you learn more about yourself, the universe will naturally start to bring you and your soulmate together.

Finding your true soulmate takes time and teaches you patience.

Manifesting true love or your soulmate is not in your control.

Give up control to the universe, focus on self-care and self-improvement in order to open the door to your one and only life partner.

Dealing with relationship loss of a soulmate, and then trying to manifest a soulmate relationship can be difficult without guidance.

At Zenory Psychics, we make this journey easy by offering love psychic readings for those seeking soulmate advice.

Our psychics readings with accurate tarot readers and spiritual healers are here to guide you with confidence and peace when it comes to dealing with matters of the heart.

Soulmate relationships take time, and require a lot of preparation, changed habits through personal growth to name a few.

Our psychic blog also has a lot of resources and articles around love and relationship psychic readings that you can turn to for free psychic guidance.

If you enjoyed this article, make sure to check out:  Are You Getting In The Way Of Manifesting Your Soulmate?

Are You Getting In The Way Of Manifesting Your Soulmate?

Posted on December 2, 2017 by Psychic Ruby

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Many people want to attract or manifest their soulmate into their life, at most times we long for a deep desire to connect with someone on a spiritual level, such is our soulmate.  However, during your time alone, before the universe will bring this soul into your life, you should know these 5 common factors that could be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.

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Relationships are like food to the soul, essential for its growth and invariably necessary for our sustenance as a person.

If the soul is happy, the individual regardless of the prevailing societal and physical setting is happy; it’s the reason why people who have found their soulmates; that final piece to the Jigsaw puzzle that is their lives radiate nothing short of a blissful aura.

For those who are yet to find this perfect complement to their lives, life can be lackluster and fleeting. If you fall into this category, here are the top five reasons as to why manifesting your soulmate has been a fruitless endeavor so far.

Love yourself first

Your soulmate is the one who loves and cherish you for the person you are, irrespective of your flaws and perfections. How then can you connect with such an individual if your real persona is constantly veiled?

Granted, life forces even the most resilient of us to create an emotional blockade in a bid to prevent the reoccurrence of previously less than pleasurable experiences.

The realisation that such a barrier effectively transforms you from a being capable of infinite love to one with a constrained view of life is critical to the furtherance of your journey towards finding a soulmate.

Your soulmate is attracted to your real persona. If you exude anything other than this in your day to day life, you are most likely to attract the wrong set of individuals; who are bound to waste your time and potentiate further emotional scarring and invariably the building of even taller blockades.

It takes work  

As much as finding a soulmate is often described with the cliché ‘they will come to you’ phrase, it is imperative to note that in most instances this is far from what is obtainable in reality. Locating your treasured missing rib takes effort, it takes commitment, and sacrifice.

The saying ‘nothing good comes easy’ comes to mind; the right soulmate, the perfect fit, do not come easy.

For sure they are not delivered on a platter of gold if anything you’ve got to fashion out the golden platter on which they’d land when they come; in other words, you’ve got to take the necessary steps to accommodate your soul mate when they do arrive. Many an instance where individuals have lost their prospective soulmates due to negligence.

Emotionally Unavailable

It takes an emotionally sound mind to locate and abhor/accommodate a soulmate. And while most singles (including you) identify themselves as emotionally matured, in the real sense they are not.

Emotional maturity is not centred on how many relationships or experiences you’ve had in the past, it is more of how capable you are at dealing with relationships and their accompanying issues.

A matured individual in this sense is one who is ready to take up responsibilities; one who is willing to forgive and also keep an open mind. This doesn’t mean you have to be perfect in all ramifications; it just means that you have to invest more time in developing yourself.

Picture yourself as your partner, and work on those qualities you require your dream soulmate to have.

Staying Isolated

Maybe due to past experiences or perhaps because of your very nature you’ve made a habit of separating yourself from everyone including those that love you.

This psyche aptly described as being a loner isolates you from experiencing the feeling of being loved; a feeling that is critical to finding a soul mate. It is when you’re loved that you can love back and it is in this atmosphere of mutual love and friendship that soulmate relationships thrive.

Holding Onto The Past 

It’s a tough and mentally demanding task to let go of the past, especially when it is filled with pleasant memories made with someone whom we once loved dearly.

Reliving those memories and wishing things returned to the way they were, clouds your sense of judgment and ultimately shuts the door of healthy relationships in your life.

If you’re going to find your soulmate, you have to let go of the past, no matter how difficult it seems realize that if that person were indeed your soulmate, he/she would still be here by your side in the present.

Talking with a online psychic can help you weed through the struggles you might be facing when it comes to love.  Our love psychics can guide you through a soulmate psychic reading, or a online tarot reading to help you find the factors that might be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.

Soulmate Relationship Challenges: What You Need To Know

Posted on November 26, 2014 by Psychic Nori

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Soulmate Relationship Challenges

Many of you have probably grown up hearing the word soulmatesSoulmate relationship challenges are there to test us.  Soulmate relationships are no easy task. 

 What is a soulmate?  A soulmate is that one person that will come to your life who will know and understand all your unspoken thoughts.  Someone who will feel what you feel and love you completely, wholly, with no questions asked.

The vision of two people falling deep into this kind of connection is definitely wonderful but this belief also happened to be the number one reason why a lot of relationships failed, with both parties going separate ways.

Travelling on a primrose path is beautiful but remember that life is not good all the time.  Meeting your soul mate is not an assurance that you will no longer have to go through challenges and that your relationship will be “hurt-free.”

For a relationship to work, it takes two people fighting to make things work.

Here are several unique challenges that soulmates need to face together.  Discover how you can make it through these storms to see a brighter and sunny day ahead.

Doubts and Uncertainties during a soul mate relationship 

There will always be instances when things do not go well as planned and when it happens, sometimes, you might wonder if it was your fault. Even when you found your soul mate, being doubtful can wreck havoc on any relationship.

Doubting your relationship will lead to different mental roadblocks, large boulders that will hinder you from moving forward. Once you convinced yourself that things are useless or hopeless, that’s exactly what will happen.

You refuse to work out on the problems and you end up using these as your excuse to justify for the mistake you made. Whether soul mates or not, couples musty also make the effort to solve issues right away instead of crying for the things that did not happen.

Unrealistic Expectations in your soul mate relationship 

Love is not always a joyful thing because there will always be troubles along the way.

Yes, you might be soul mates but it is not a guarantee that you will have a smooth and worry-free ride in your relationships. One of the most common challenges in soul mate relationships is when one or both parties think that they have a perfect relationship.

Just like normal couples, you and your soul mate will fight every now and then and disagree on some things. Remember, being soul mates does not remove your being humans and as humans, part of your natural behaviour is to make some mistakes.

Raging Passion 

When you’ve found your soul mate, you tend to love and care for each other deeply. This deep sense of caring can stir passion, and sometimes, this passion can go from a simple spark to raging flames that can devour you both.

Caring for someone so much can be good and bad because the more you care, the more hurt you will be if your partner lashes out. More investments mean more to lose if things do not work out.

Terrifying as it might be, the secret here is to always keep your feelings in check and never let your passion consume you to the point of doing things that you are not supposed to do.

Closing the Chapter

Probably the most hurtful out of all soul mate relationship challenges is the part when you finally realised that the relationship is going nowhere. Despite your bond, you and your soul mate are still two persons who have your own attitude, perceptions and beliefs.

When one party has been damaged or has issues on communicating, chances are the relationship will come to an end.

It might be hard to let go but sometimes, it’s for the best.

Letting go means being brave and accepting the fact that being soulmates is not a guarantee that your relationship will be a happily ever after.

Talk to a love psychic about how you can manage a soulmate relationship challenge.  A soulmate psychic reading at Zenory can help guide you through every step of the way when facing these kind of relationship challenges.

A psychic reading will help you clear up any uneasy feelings you maybe facing.

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